It is normal to want to find a partner after your transition to womanhood. On rare occasions, some people find a partner when they least expect to, will fall in love with that person and live happily, ever after. But the reality for most people is they have to date around for a bit to find the one. Here are the answers to some questions that many trans women have about dating:
When Should I Start Dating?
It is ultimately up to you to decide when you are ready to take that leap into the dating world. This should be your choice and not one pressured by your peers and family members.How Do I Even Get A Date?
Well, there are many ways to get a date. From meeting someone at a bar or store and starting a conversation, to getting set up on blind dates, to speed dating and even from using the trans dating sites. It is up to you to decide which you are comfortable with, but you should also try to keep an open mind.Should I Tell My Date I Am Trans?
It is very important to be open and honest with your date. Your transsexuality is not something you should hide from people as your date deserves to know what to expect and who you truly are.How Do I Deal With First-Date Nerves?
The key to dealing with nervousness is to realize that there is no reason to be nervous. But if you can't shake those nerves make it a group date or bring a friend along to avoid awkward silences and to build your comfort level with that person.
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